Ahmad
narrated from Jabir ra, ra that Abu Bakr came to The Prophet asked permission
to appear. At that time the Prophet was sitting and the people crowded in front
of the door of his house, but Abu Bakr was not allowed. Then came Umar bin
Khatttab ask for permission, but he also is not allowed. Just a few moments
later they were allowed into his house, The Prophet was sitting in silence. The
wives sit around him, "I would say to the Prophet, that might make him
laugh," said Umar as he continued, "The Prophet O, if I saw the
daughter of Zaid (Umar's wife) asked me a living, would have been had I hit her
neck" . Heard that he laughed when he looked up to molar teeth. He said,
"Those who are around me also ask for additional living kepakaku".
Abu
Bakr cash up to where his son, Ayesha to hit it. Umar also got to where Hafsah,
daughter. They both said, "You two are asking for something that is not
owned by The Prophet?" He also intervene and prohibit Abu Bakr and Umar.
The wife he said, "By Allah, after this we will not ask for anything
Rosulullah did not have".
God
finally lose the option to his wives, Aisha started from, he said, "I
remind you one more favor if you expect it to be, so that you can consult with
your parents", "What is it?" Said Aisha. Then he recited verses
28-29 of Al-Ahzab suroh, meaning, "O prophet, say to your wives: If ye
desire the life of the world and jewels, so then let me give you mut'ah and I
divorce you in a way that fine. And if you all want (pleasure) of Allah and His
Messenger and the victory in the Hereafter, Allah provides for anyone who is kind
of you a great reward. "
Aisha
responded immediately, "Do you think I'm still going to ask advice from my
parents? I choose Allah and His Prophet. I beg, do not tell this to one of my
choice of your wives," says Aisha. But he insisted that he would inform
the choice Aisha told the other wives as he was the messenger and as an
educator and provide convenience.
Thus,
finally the wives of The Prophet chose pleasure of Allah and His Prophet and
happiness in the next village. He has succeeded in making his family as a
wonderful place to learn. He himself is also very concerned about education to
families in the midst of taking care of people and nations. His wives were very
excited to receive education from him. Maybe this is the key to successful
education in the family working together. Hopefully we can imitate him.
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